|Remember that day?|
A neighbor of mine for many years gave me a copy of his memoirs, in bound and printed form. It was a book he had written by himself, with no idea of publication and sales in mind. He personally chose the title of the book, designed the cover and had the book copied and bound for further distribution to his family and friends, as he saw fit.
I read the book with great interest and then shared it with another neighbor who asked to borrow it, and since then it has been loaned to another person who is supposed to return it to me when they are done reading it. I am happy to share the book with others. This book is not sold in any stores. There are probably only 20 or 25 copies of the book in its entirety. It is a book that is likely to be cherished for years to come owing to the fact that we all enjoy reading about the life of a friend or family member when it has been so carefully laid out and presented.
My neighbor is a retired architect who had a very successful career in government who has authored numerous technical manuals and bureaucratic reports but never until now, a book he could call his own. The book he gave me as a gift is about his life, not his career. It is about his childhood, not his life at the office. It is a story about introspect and old friends, people who inspired him, people he loved, or who puzzled him. In his book he tells funny stories and relays charming moments that changed his life forever. I really enjoyed reading his stories.
He and I talked at great length about the value of writing such a book, a personal book to be shared with family and friends and not a book to be submitted for publication, reviewed, edited and the like. Its purpose houses no future career. He doesn't want to sell the book to make money. He wants to share his ideas and perspectives in printed format, and he has done so, very successfully I might add.
Personal writing can become part of a larger story. Professor Lillian Schlisser published an historical book based on the letters and diaries of a hundred women who took the trip across the continent to Oregon or California between 1840 and 1870 in covered wagons. Without access to their hand-written notes their stories, Professor Schlisser could never have written such a personal narrative that unfolded so beautifully into an historical perspective.
Personal writing often goes beyond straightforward documentation of what happened. It may also open the mind to think more imaginatively and creatively.
Tara Parker-Pope of the New York Times reviewed research showing personal writing may lead to behavioral change and improved happiness. Through writing and rewriting our stories, we may change personal perceptions about ourselves and others ultimately leading to improved health.
Years later, my personal novel and a series of short stories are written and re-written numerous times. Chapters have been added, deleted and merged with other chapters. Dialogue has come and gone. Characters have appeared and disappeared.
It only required me to take moments out to write and rewrite. There were no travel costs, no public speaking engagements because of it, no stress over trying to sell it. It just is.
These unpublished stories are slowly developing a life of their own.
I open up my computer and see them on the screen and always enjoy relating to them. Sometimes I rewrite a paragraph, reformulate a dialogue, redo a paragraph, choose or delete a word.
It is one of the most enjoyable things I have done, on my own, for no one in particular.